And on the third day

Our train trip from Hanoi to Sa Pa was nice and relaxing as we had our own cabin which meant we had both of the bottom bunks which in turn meant I didn’t have to climb to the top bunk and hit my head several hundred times. After arriving in Loa Cai we got on a minibus for the drive to Sa Pa. We got the very back corner of the mini bus and after half an hour of polite small talk with a Dutch couple I had to bow my head and close my eyes before the winding roads got the better of me.

It was freezing outside. I could tell because it was snowing and because I couldn’t feel my feet as we walked the 1.5km to our hotel. Once we reached our hotel I was so happy because it looked so cute and so almost-European. I imagined that when I walked in I would be hit by the heat and I would be able to put my feet up to thaw and drink some tea while I finished re-reading The Kite Runner. I wasn’t hit with heat as I walked in the door. Instead I was hit with more cold and a bright round light. The hotel workers gave us some tea which was such a welcome relief as we waited the 4 hours until we got given a room. As we sat on a cold couch I worked out what the bright round light was. It was a heater (I later came to love those heaters) that reminded me of the heat lamp lights you can put in your bathroom that emit heat while on.

3.5 hours later (we got our room earlier…) we ran up the stairs to our room which I imagined would surely be warm. It wasn’t warm. It was just as cold as downstairs and I very quickly figured out that as lovely as the balcony would be in summer, it wasn’t so great when it was snowing and there was a 2cm gap between the bottom of the door and floor. I think this was the source of the cold.

I don’t do too well in the cold if I’m not prepared for it. I’ve learnt that some people can just adapt, they chuck on a beanie and are on their way. I’m not one of those people. I need thermals, thick socks, down jackets (yes I need 2), a beanie, gloves and snow boots. If I have all of this I will happily embrace the low temperatures. If I don’t, which I didn’t in Sa Pa, I will try to avoid the coldest temperatures as much as possible. We weren’t expecting such cold temperatures on this trip, we didn’t pack for them, but I get the impression a lot of people weren’t – we met a few people who had to go out and buy some warmer clothes just like we did. I’m not exactly sure why it was so cold but we saw on the news that Hong Kong experienced their coldest day in 60 days. There must have definitely been something in the wind…

Our first 2 days in Sa Pa were so uneventful I won’t say much more than we watched a lot of movies, waited out numerous power outages and occasionally ventured outside, mainly just to get food.

And on the third day the clouds opened up, the sun shone through, the ice melted and we left our hotel. It was beautiful outside and some people might say we didn’t embrace our first days there but I’m glad we didn’t try to do too much, we would have had foggy memories of sights we tried to see but couldn’t through all of the fog and clouds. Instead, on the third day we got a driver to take us up the mountain side where we then climbed up to the waterfalls and breathed in the fresh air and smelt the crispness of the greenery. I find water so fascinating and I especially love the sound of waterfalls. We stood for quite a while listening and watching the water cascade down and despite the loudness of the water it was peaceful.

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View on our drive to the waterfalls

On the way down from the waterfall we thought we would take the second path other than the one we used to get up there. After walking for a bit (I was leading at this stage and I kind of feel like this only happened because I was leading) we came to the end of the path, it didn’t just stop, we could see the path continue on up ahead but between us and the rest of the path were fallen trees and part of the river that was just there. We walked back up the path and across the river there was a local telling us we had to jump across. We know he was telling us to jump because he kept running and jumping on his side of the river and pointing. We gave him the thumbs up, smiled and nodded and he continued on his way. Mark found the point he thought would be best to cross at. Why didn’t we just turn around and walk back? Well where’s the fun in that? So we easily passed the middle of the river without getting wet and then there was a gap without anything for us to step onto. I thought we should just jump it but Mark kept telling me it wasn’t safe because it was so slippery and taking into account how clumsy I can be we shouldn’t risk it. I should have just jumped when I first thought of it because when Mark eventually jumped across I knew I could have easily made it. Before Mark and I were together I would have jumped without a second thought and so I was annoyed when he moved a wooden log for me so I could walk across. Next time I’ll show him that I can keep up with him.

I’m so glad we ended our stay in Sa Pa the way we did. Today was perfect and on the drive back to Loa Cai this afternoon I pictured just how beautiful the area would be in full bloom. Maybe one day I’ll see it for myself but at the moment we are sitting in a restaurant across from the train station waiting for yet another train, this time to take us to Hue, via a train change in Hanoi.

Much love, B xxx

Happy in Hanoi

This is our first time in the north of Vietnam and we both love it as much as the south. We arrived in Hanoi on Wednesday night and instead of catching a cab to our hotel we got on the local bus which cost us less than AUD$1! Soon after getting on the bus a young Vietnamese guy got on and started talking to us straight away. He had just flown in from Ho Chi Minh where he had been doing qualification testing to be able to work on a cruise ship as a bartender. He had studied business and commerce at university but couldn’t find a job so started working as a bartender shortly after graduating and now he was hoping to work on a cruise ship to earn better money. He made the bus ride go a lot quicker than it would have as he was giving us information on Hanoi and places we should go.

Once we got off the bus and walked to our hotel we thought it would be nice to go have a beer and some food. It was all happening on the street. We saw a fight, a guy passed out on the street, a guy so drunk he couldn’t get into a cab and banh mi. We avoided everything but the banh mi (vietnamese bread roll) and sat down to eat and have a beer while we watched all of the other things we were avoiding.

Thursday we didn’t really do much but our usual, walking, eating and drinking. We had been pretty happy up to this point as neither of us had gotten sick so far on our trip (this for me was a major achievement) but while I was sitting at a road side restaurant eating a bowl of beef pho, Mark was gradually going downhill. One of the downfalls of staying at a hotel with a shared bathroom is that sometimes it can be really far from your room. In our case it’s downstairs and so when Mark thought he had thrown up everything already and went to bed I knew better (multiple cases of food poisoning will teach you to know better) and moved the bin next to him. Sure enough, 2 hours later he was bent over that bin throwing his guts up. Of course I didn’t like seeing him sick like that but I will admit I was happy it wasn’t me – it’s normally always me.

We took Friday morning and afternoon easy as Mark still wasn’t feeling the best but by dinner time he had his appetite back so we splurged and went to an Argentinian BBQ restaurant. 500gm of Australian Black Angus Beef steak, some beer, passionfruit mojitos and caramel vodka made our night. We made a pact that while away we would aim to eat 1 nice meal a month – I’m looking forward to next month.

That now brings us to today, and I think we are now officially in our relaxed mode. After a decent 10 hour sleep we eventually got up and did a whole lot of nothing but walking. One of my favourite things to do when I’m overseas is to just walk around and look at everything. We have been able to do that so much here in Hanoi and it’s so nice and calming, even if it is Melbourne-worthy cold and we didn’t pack appropriately! We went through the old Hanoi prison earlier one which was quite interesting and will go out again tonight to explore some more.

 

It’s been nice having a few days in one city, no need to constantly pack or think about the time. We have a full day here again tomorrow and then are on a train to Sa Pa.

xx

 

Who would have thought

Who would have thought a country could be so quiet.

Laos is so peaceful we actually felt that at sometimes we needed to whisper when walking along the street. Both Mark and I fell in love with this place straight away. There isn’t a whole lot to do if you exclude seeing temples but it doesn’t seem to matter, the days slowly move from one to another. 

We arrived in the capital, Vientiane on Sunday and didn’t do much. We walked around the city, ate and then went back to our hostel where we met an Israeli traveller who had just spent a few months in Australia and New Zealand. It was interesting to hear what someone thought of travelling through Australia and then to get a few tips on places to see when we are in Israel. 

After dinner we went to the night market which would have to have been the quietest market I’ve ever been to. It sells pretty much the same things as the rest of the markets in Asia but there were a few street performers which were cool, especially one from Japan. 

Flying out to Luang Prabang on Monday morning gave us more time to play monopoly as our flight was delayed by a couple of hours (I’ve never experienced this many flight delays than I have this past month). I’ve noticed that Mark is happy to play when he’s winning or when it looks like he can win. We stopped playing when he had to mortgage most of his houses to pay me rent. 

Yesterday apart from the usual walking around and eating we got a tuk-tuk out to Kuang Si Falls. They were simply breathtaking. I don’t know if the picture below does it justice but Mark spent ages trying to get the best photo. I think he did alright. 

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I’m glad I read up on the falls before we went because apart from the shock at how cold the water was there were fish attacking my feet. I read that they were the same ones you can find at beauty spas that eat all of the dead skin off your feet. I didn’t actually think I would experience them but it happened straight away and I freaked out (just a little) until I remembered what they were. These falls were definitely the highlight of Laos and you must go if you are ever in Luang Prabang. 

Laos has a huge French and Vietnamese influence which really makes the country, or what we’ve seen of it. I’m really happy with the time we have spent here and hope to be back but right now we are waiting for yet another plane to take us to Hanoi, Vietnam.

B xxx

Buckets in Bangkok

I’ve been to Thailand before but never actually stayed in Bangkok. It was a welcome change from India and it was nice to be able to get our clothes washed again and from Mark’s perspective have easy access to cheap beers.

We arrived in Bangkok a couple of days ago and after delays getting out of Delhi it was nice to be somewhere to chill out.

On our first night we were super tired so had an early night but I woke up in the middle of the night all itchy and found Mark was awake too. After turning on the light we soon discovered we were covered in mosquito bites, and we also discovered the huge hole in the wall beside the bed. I assume this was how the mosquito/s got in. I don’t do too well with bugs and insects so slept pretty restlessly after that, thinking a huge spider was going to come and get me. To try and get rid of any bugs in the room we turned the air conditioner on full blast, assuming they didn’t like the cold… it seemed to have worked.

Yesterday we wandered around the city not really doing much and went back to our street side restaurant for lunch and beers. After a small nap (I love my naps) we went back out for some more food and drinks or as they are called in Bangkok, buckets. Mark and I thought it would be a good idea to just share one bucket and then have some beers. 3 buckets later it’s safe to say I had a good night and was feeling a bit queasy at 5.30 this morning when we had to wake up.

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It’s freezing cold here at the airport and I get the feeling our plane to Laos is going to be delayed so I’m going to go and find some food and juice.

Until Laos, B xxx

Oh I Am Grateful

I have been overseas before this trip. I have travelled to parts of Asia & Europe and have always gone home after each trip grateful for that first shower with clean water and that first night’s sleep in my bed.

India is different though. I have never before felt this grateful for my life back home after just a few weeks in another country. 

I’m grateful for clean water.
I’ve always known we’ve been lucky to have such great water in Melbourne. In my previous trips to Asia I’ve always drank bottled water and noticed the tap water was never as clean as back home but never have I been in a shower and thought that a weird smell was not coming in through the window but was actually the water. 

I’m grateful for Mark.
Most of the things I’ve been able to experience in my adult life is a credit to him. I’m lucky that he wakes up every morning and asks how I slept. He offers to carry one of my backpacks when we’ve been walking for a while – even though he’s already got 2 of his own. 

I’m grateful for my parents.
Speaking to our Honcho Ashu I learnt a lot about just how different life in India can be compared to life in Australia I’m grateful that my parents let me live a free life and that I’ve been able to chose my own path. 

I’m grateful for my brothers and their girlfriends. 
Recently I’ve noticed just how much unspoken respect we have for each other and how lucky we are to have this. I think this is a credit to our parents. 

I’m grateful for my job.
Not that I am still employed anywhere, but I am grateful for the job I had and the job I will hopefully have when I get back. There were so many people living on the streets here because there is no work for them. 

I’m grateful for Australia.
We’ve been asked a fair bit about how things work in Australia and when we have told people I’ve realised how great Australia is and I’ve found we almost start apologising for the opportunities we have simply from being an Australian.

B, xxx

Majestic

It’s amazing how much of a difference an airport makes to first impressions. Bangalore’s airport is so clean and new I had a great first impression. When we walked out to the city bus line and got on the bus it was so clean and new as well. 20 points for Griffandor, I mean Bangalore. (Sorry, I watched Harry Potter for the millionth time last night) as we got closer to the city it started to look a lot like the rest of India has so far.

Our hotel is super simple and is in a part of town called Majestic, (I would say it is anything but majestic) however, our hotel has probably the best water pressure and heat we’ve come across so far in our stay in India. One thing I’ve noticed as well is that from afar everything looks clean and neat, as you get closer though you realise that it’s not as clean as you thought and you begin to question what level on sanitisation you will need to provide yourself. That’s not just here, it’s been everywhere.

I like it here though. Yesterday we went to Toit, a micro brewery which was good. I would recommend it if you ever happen to find yourself in Bangalore, however do expect crowds and a wait. We were so tired though after getting up early and flying here that we didn’t do much last night – I watched Harry Potter and Mark slowly began to watch it as well!

Today was good. We slept in, had super long showers under nice hot water and then went out for the day. We went to a cake shop first which I compare to an Italian one back home. The one back home has a name but we just call it Lina’s. Whenever an order has been put through at Lina’s Mark always offers to go pick it up. He has learnt to take the money mum gives him for the cake and use the change to buy himself a coffee and cannoli. We know to never expect him back in under an hour. The cake shop today was the Indian version. We got ourselves a piece of cake each and then bought a few small deserts to try. They had very interesting tastes and were really sweet. Not that I’m a chef or anything but it seems like they use a lot of almond meal, sugar and butter. I’m probably wrong though.

To work off the cakes we ate we thought we would walk to Bangalore Palace. We didn’t. We got a tuk-tuk instead. The Palace looked really amazing from the front. I would live there if I could, not that I know what it was like on the inside. We walked in and then realised we couldn’t go any further unless we bought a ticket and we couldn’t be bothered spending 460Rupee (AUD$11.50) each to stay inside on such a nice day so we smiled and left. I imagine it would be nice inside if you’ve got the time.

 

 

From here we walked to a pub which, when we walked inside we were told was closed even though there were tables of people in there. This is like one of those times when you feel like you’re not cool enough to be somewhere. Anyway, a couple of levels up there is another pub. Beers were cheap, food was good and cheap. We stayed for hours. We were so happy we found this one and it seemed much better than the other one downstairs and even better than the one we went to yesterday. While there we got speaking to the manager who was super helpful  and told us a few tips and tricks, one of them being India’s version of Uber, Olacabs. They have Uber in India but he said that Olacabs was more prominent in Bangalore so we signed up then and there and gave it a try. We paid the same as what we would have probably been charged in a tuk-tuk and were in a car with proper windows and doors which meant we didn’t have to cover our noses and mouths from the dust and fumes which we do in a tuk-tuk.

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Our normal get-up for a tuk-tuk ride

On our way back to our hotel we stopped at the market so I could buy myself some kameez to wear to fit in with the locals. I don’t know what they will look like on but I’ll be sure to laugh at myself if I look hilarious.

We are off to Delhi tomorrow and only have a few more days left in India. It’s taken me, and Mark, a lot longer to adjust here than it normally does when we travel. Normally we can adjust to another country within a couple of days whereas here it took so much longer, and now that we have adjusted we will be leaving. We have a lot of sightseeing to do in the next couple of days and I’m glad we are seeing them at the end of our stay. I feel like we will appreciate them more…

Until next time, B xxx

 

Time is up.

The last couple of months have flown by so quickly, so quickly in fact that for the last 2 weeks leading up to our first flight I was so anxious and stressed. Mark finished work just over 10 days before I did so he had spent that time before Christmas looking into things we need, updating our finance spread sheet, catching up with people and doing some things he loved to do. I felt like I didn’t had that luxury, I worked up until my work Christmas party on the 22nd and then spent the next 2 days trying to make sure we had everything sorted for Christmas and our trip. I normally love Christmas but this year it was a bit of a blur but I’m glad we were home to spend it with our families. We fly out tomorrow morning for the first leg of our trip.

This first leg of our trip is over in less than 2 months and then we fly back to Melbourne for a Mark’s Brother’s wedding. It will be good to use that time to see people and re-pack properly before the second leg. To us, this first leg is just like a long holiday, although I think that will make it difficult because we still need to act like we are backpacking and are on a tight budget. I don’t think the budget part will be very difficult as we are spending the whole time in Asia. We’ve got our bags packed and clothes laid out ready for tomorrow morning. Let’s hope we don’t sleep through our alarms on the first day of our trip.

B xx

First, you’ll need a World Map

I bought my World Map years ago when we were planning our Trans-Siberian Trip and to be honest I never really used it, I just hung it up on the wall. Now, a couple of years later it is becoming useful.

My World Map & Lonely Plant 'The World'  Travel Guide
My World Map & Lonely Planet ‘The World’ Travel Guide

There are so many places in the world that I want to visit and at the beginning I was really stubborn. Mark was willing to negotiate on The Places We would go but I was struggling with that idea. Eventually though I had to start culling. Once I started it wasn’t too difficult but that was because I had a list of non-negotiable places.

Mark has done a lot of the work on this trip, he travels so much for work he is now so good at taking into account so many different things for a trip. I don’t think I would have been able to do it without him. We’ve planned up until June so far. There are weeks throughout that time that we have an idea on what we want to do but we haven’t booked anything and other things have been booked and paid for. The only reason we have booked so far in advance for some places is because of the visa requirements of some countries.

We are pretty happy with what we have planned so far and can’t wait to share all of The Places We visit along the way. At the moment though we are stuck in Australia while our passports visit several embassies and consulates for our visas.

Stay tuned… B

 

Decision Making

I think it’s hard in today’s society to drop everything and go. It’s not an issue of whether you want to or not it’s more an issue of if you think you can. We had to stop and think about it all. We had worked really hard to save up for a house; could we just leave and spend all of our hard earned savings? Friends of ours were getting married and moving into their own places; did we want to postpone all of that? Some were having babies; how old would we be when we got back? Would it be too late?

We had to stop ourselves and actually think about it. No, we didn’t actually care if we spent all of our money on a trip of a lifetime, actually we wanted to. Yes, we did want to postpone moving into our own place and starting our lives together, a 30 year long mortgage scared us. And finally no, we wouldn’t be too old when we got back, in fact we would still be super young. We had the rest of our lives to pay bills and worry about money, but we only had now to decide if we were going to do what would make us happy.

And so that is how we decided to go away… We looked at everyone around us and said “Is that what we want?” “Yes it’s what we want” “Do we want it right now?” “No”.

We live in a materialistic world these days and we are hoping that this trip will remind us of what is important in life and what is important to us.

But now on to an even more important question… Where should we go?

Should I stay or should I go?

I can remember when I was younger making promises with so many people that we would travel the world together. I was desperate to go away so I thought that the more people I made promises with the better chance I would have of one of the promises following through. I never thought about going by myself. I’ve read that people say you grow so much from travelling on your own but it never appealed to me – I always wanted to have someone I could share the whole experience with.

My cousin was one of the people I made that promise with and when he went away with his girlfriend in 2012 I was so jealous. He had found someone who was going to leave everything behind and travel with him for as long as they could. Mark and I had spoken about doing what they were doing but we both had good jobs and it wasn’t like we were sitting at home not seeing anything. We were going away as often as possible but there was always just this itching feeling that I needed to go away.

At the end of 2014 we decided we would go away, I should say we were telling our families we were going to go but I don’t know if even we thought we would – I mean we were at this stage saving and looking for a house to buy! God – we sound so indecisive…

It’s now October and we have both given notice at work and are taking all the money we saved for a house and are going to travel the world. Finally! Decision and action from us. It’s all a bit daunting but much more exciting! we are both so excited and I can’t wait to share our trip with you.

Cheers, B