I left my heart to the sappers ’round Khe Sahn

We arrived here in Hue on Thursday after being on a train for about 24 hours which was pretty much the usual train ride except I got given a baby, luckily, not to keep though… When we first got on the train there was a lady and I assume her baby in our carriage. He was wearing so many layers that he couldn’t move and he looked so cute! Once she removed his number of jackets she handed him to me and then got off the train. Just like that. I laughed at first and then got a bit nervous as I noticed she was walking towards the exit on the platform… She came back shortly after and I was glad to hand her baby back to her. Apart from that we slept, read and watched a movie during our journey.

It’s our first time here in Hue and it feels like such an ancient city which probably explains why visiting the Imperial City is one of the top things to do here. We went to see it yesterday. For such an overcast day it was nice to be able to see so much colour in one place. We’ve both been to a number of ancient cities throughout Asia but we still like to go and see them if we can. They are always so different even if on the exterior they just look the same.

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I think I’ve mentioned it before but we aren’t really tour people. It’s not just the cost associated with them, we’ve worked out that it’s being on someone else’s time that we don’t like. We don’t like being told when we have to be somewhere, what we have to stop to take a photo of or what we have to look at. We also don’t like being dragged around for hours when we could have finished earlier. In saying all of that though we booked ourselves to go on a tour. Mind you we didn’t really read what it was we simply read the main attraction and thought it would be interesting – the DMZ.

We thought the DMZ would be interesting, however we didn’t quite realise how far away it was from the city. A couple hours later we arrived in Khe Sanh where we walked through the small museum there. I don’t know if museum is quite the right word as it was more a humble reminder of what happened there during the Vietnam War. It’s also slightly confusing and points to the fact both America and Vietnam claim victory from the battle in Khe Sanh, but how can both claim victory? Simply from the way both countries teach the younger generations about their versions. It seems so wrong but I guess when you think about it, this type of things happens everywhere. While in Khe Sanh I couldn’t help but remember that classic Cold Chisel song. After that it was stuck in my head for hours.

On the bus ride back we stopped at the Vĩnh Mốc tunnels to see how the locals survived and lived during the war. I quickly found out that I don’t like dark underground spaces and was glad to get out of there as quickly as possible. Mark found this quite amusing especially when we were just standing around underground doing nothing. I was amazed though at how our guide was able to wear small heels as she guided us through the levels of underground spaces.

We just got back to our hotel from a day walking around and are waiting to catch yet another train to Nha Trang. We met some locals today who invited us to their house for beers. We thought they could speak English but they couldn’t and we don’t speak Vietnamese so I sat with a laptop on my lap and typed conversations into Google translate. After an hour there we were starving so began our walk back and on the way we stopped into a pub to eat which was due to show the Australian Open live so we hung around and watched Djokovic beat Murray quite convincingly. I also watched Mark get hustled by a waitress at pool. He won both games but I have the slight feeling she let him win.

 

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And on the third day

Our train trip from Hanoi to Sa Pa was nice and relaxing as we had our own cabin which meant we had both of the bottom bunks which in turn meant I didn’t have to climb to the top bunk and hit my head several hundred times. After arriving in Loa Cai we got on a minibus for the drive to Sa Pa. We got the very back corner of the mini bus and after half an hour of polite small talk with a Dutch couple I had to bow my head and close my eyes before the winding roads got the better of me.

It was freezing outside. I could tell because it was snowing and because I couldn’t feel my feet as we walked the 1.5km to our hotel. Once we reached our hotel I was so happy because it looked so cute and so almost-European. I imagined that when I walked in I would be hit by the heat and I would be able to put my feet up to thaw and drink some tea while I finished re-reading The Kite Runner. I wasn’t hit with heat as I walked in the door. Instead I was hit with more cold and a bright round light. The hotel workers gave us some tea which was such a welcome relief as we waited the 4 hours until we got given a room. As we sat on a cold couch I worked out what the bright round light was. It was a heater (I later came to love those heaters) that reminded me of the heat lamp lights you can put in your bathroom that emit heat while on.

3.5 hours later (we got our room earlier…) we ran up the stairs to our room which I imagined would surely be warm. It wasn’t warm. It was just as cold as downstairs and I very quickly figured out that as lovely as the balcony would be in summer, it wasn’t so great when it was snowing and there was a 2cm gap between the bottom of the door and floor. I think this was the source of the cold.

I don’t do too well in the cold if I’m not prepared for it. I’ve learnt that some people can just adapt, they chuck on a beanie and are on their way. I’m not one of those people. I need thermals, thick socks, down jackets (yes I need 2), a beanie, gloves and snow boots. If I have all of this I will happily embrace the low temperatures. If I don’t, which I didn’t in Sa Pa, I will try to avoid the coldest temperatures as much as possible. We weren’t expecting such cold temperatures on this trip, we didn’t pack for them, but I get the impression a lot of people weren’t – we met a few people who had to go out and buy some warmer clothes just like we did. I’m not exactly sure why it was so cold but we saw on the news that Hong Kong experienced their coldest day in 60 days. There must have definitely been something in the wind…

Our first 2 days in Sa Pa were so uneventful I won’t say much more than we watched a lot of movies, waited out numerous power outages and occasionally ventured outside, mainly just to get food.

And on the third day the clouds opened up, the sun shone through, the ice melted and we left our hotel. It was beautiful outside and some people might say we didn’t embrace our first days there but I’m glad we didn’t try to do too much, we would have had foggy memories of sights we tried to see but couldn’t through all of the fog and clouds. Instead, on the third day we got a driver to take us up the mountain side where we then climbed up to the waterfalls and breathed in the fresh air and smelt the crispness of the greenery. I find water so fascinating and I especially love the sound of waterfalls. We stood for quite a while listening and watching the water cascade down and despite the loudness of the water it was peaceful.

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View on our drive to the waterfalls

On the way down from the waterfall we thought we would take the second path other than the one we used to get up there. After walking for a bit (I was leading at this stage and I kind of feel like this only happened because I was leading) we came to the end of the path, it didn’t just stop, we could see the path continue on up ahead but between us and the rest of the path were fallen trees and part of the river that was just there. We walked back up the path and across the river there was a local telling us we had to jump across. We know he was telling us to jump because he kept running and jumping on his side of the river and pointing. We gave him the thumbs up, smiled and nodded and he continued on his way. Mark found the point he thought would be best to cross at. Why didn’t we just turn around and walk back? Well where’s the fun in that? So we easily passed the middle of the river without getting wet and then there was a gap without anything for us to step onto. I thought we should just jump it but Mark kept telling me it wasn’t safe because it was so slippery and taking into account how clumsy I can be we shouldn’t risk it. I should have just jumped when I first thought of it because when Mark eventually jumped across I knew I could have easily made it. Before Mark and I were together I would have jumped without a second thought and so I was annoyed when he moved a wooden log for me so I could walk across. Next time I’ll show him that I can keep up with him.

I’m so glad we ended our stay in Sa Pa the way we did. Today was perfect and on the drive back to Loa Cai this afternoon I pictured just how beautiful the area would be in full bloom. Maybe one day I’ll see it for myself but at the moment we are sitting in a restaurant across from the train station waiting for yet another train, this time to take us to Hue, via a train change in Hanoi.

Much love, B xxx

Happy in Hanoi

This is our first time in the north of Vietnam and we both love it as much as the south. We arrived in Hanoi on Wednesday night and instead of catching a cab to our hotel we got on the local bus which cost us less than AUD$1! Soon after getting on the bus a young Vietnamese guy got on and started talking to us straight away. He had just flown in from Ho Chi Minh where he had been doing qualification testing to be able to work on a cruise ship as a bartender. He had studied business and commerce at university but couldn’t find a job so started working as a bartender shortly after graduating and now he was hoping to work on a cruise ship to earn better money. He made the bus ride go a lot quicker than it would have as he was giving us information on Hanoi and places we should go.

Once we got off the bus and walked to our hotel we thought it would be nice to go have a beer and some food. It was all happening on the street. We saw a fight, a guy passed out on the street, a guy so drunk he couldn’t get into a cab and banh mi. We avoided everything but the banh mi (vietnamese bread roll) and sat down to eat and have a beer while we watched all of the other things we were avoiding.

Thursday we didn’t really do much but our usual, walking, eating and drinking. We had been pretty happy up to this point as neither of us had gotten sick so far on our trip (this for me was a major achievement) but while I was sitting at a road side restaurant eating a bowl of beef pho, Mark was gradually going downhill. One of the downfalls of staying at a hotel with a shared bathroom is that sometimes it can be really far from your room. In our case it’s downstairs and so when Mark thought he had thrown up everything already and went to bed I knew better (multiple cases of food poisoning will teach you to know better) and moved the bin next to him. Sure enough, 2 hours later he was bent over that bin throwing his guts up. Of course I didn’t like seeing him sick like that but I will admit I was happy it wasn’t me – it’s normally always me.

We took Friday morning and afternoon easy as Mark still wasn’t feeling the best but by dinner time he had his appetite back so we splurged and went to an Argentinian BBQ restaurant. 500gm of Australian Black Angus Beef steak, some beer, passionfruit mojitos and caramel vodka made our night. We made a pact that while away we would aim to eat 1 nice meal a month – I’m looking forward to next month.

That now brings us to today, and I think we are now officially in our relaxed mode. After a decent 10 hour sleep we eventually got up and did a whole lot of nothing but walking. One of my favourite things to do when I’m overseas is to just walk around and look at everything. We have been able to do that so much here in Hanoi and it’s so nice and calming, even if it is Melbourne-worthy cold and we didn’t pack appropriately! We went through the old Hanoi prison earlier one which was quite interesting and will go out again tonight to explore some more.

 

It’s been nice having a few days in one city, no need to constantly pack or think about the time. We have a full day here again tomorrow and then are on a train to Sa Pa.

xx

 

Who would have thought

Who would have thought a country could be so quiet.

Laos is so peaceful we actually felt that at sometimes we needed to whisper when walking along the street. Both Mark and I fell in love with this place straight away. There isn’t a whole lot to do if you exclude seeing temples but it doesn’t seem to matter, the days slowly move from one to another. 

We arrived in the capital, Vientiane on Sunday and didn’t do much. We walked around the city, ate and then went back to our hostel where we met an Israeli traveller who had just spent a few months in Australia and New Zealand. It was interesting to hear what someone thought of travelling through Australia and then to get a few tips on places to see when we are in Israel. 

After dinner we went to the night market which would have to have been the quietest market I’ve ever been to. It sells pretty much the same things as the rest of the markets in Asia but there were a few street performers which were cool, especially one from Japan. 

Flying out to Luang Prabang on Monday morning gave us more time to play monopoly as our flight was delayed by a couple of hours (I’ve never experienced this many flight delays than I have this past month). I’ve noticed that Mark is happy to play when he’s winning or when it looks like he can win. We stopped playing when he had to mortgage most of his houses to pay me rent. 

Yesterday apart from the usual walking around and eating we got a tuk-tuk out to Kuang Si Falls. They were simply breathtaking. I don’t know if the picture below does it justice but Mark spent ages trying to get the best photo. I think he did alright. 

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I’m glad I read up on the falls before we went because apart from the shock at how cold the water was there were fish attacking my feet. I read that they were the same ones you can find at beauty spas that eat all of the dead skin off your feet. I didn’t actually think I would experience them but it happened straight away and I freaked out (just a little) until I remembered what they were. These falls were definitely the highlight of Laos and you must go if you are ever in Luang Prabang. 

Laos has a huge French and Vietnamese influence which really makes the country, or what we’ve seen of it. I’m really happy with the time we have spent here and hope to be back but right now we are waiting for yet another plane to take us to Hanoi, Vietnam.

B xxx

Buckets in Bangkok

I’ve been to Thailand before but never actually stayed in Bangkok. It was a welcome change from India and it was nice to be able to get our clothes washed again and from Mark’s perspective have easy access to cheap beers.

We arrived in Bangkok a couple of days ago and after delays getting out of Delhi it was nice to be somewhere to chill out.

On our first night we were super tired so had an early night but I woke up in the middle of the night all itchy and found Mark was awake too. After turning on the light we soon discovered we were covered in mosquito bites, and we also discovered the huge hole in the wall beside the bed. I assume this was how the mosquito/s got in. I don’t do too well with bugs and insects so slept pretty restlessly after that, thinking a huge spider was going to come and get me. To try and get rid of any bugs in the room we turned the air conditioner on full blast, assuming they didn’t like the cold… it seemed to have worked.

Yesterday we wandered around the city not really doing much and went back to our street side restaurant for lunch and beers. After a small nap (I love my naps) we went back out for some more food and drinks or as they are called in Bangkok, buckets. Mark and I thought it would be a good idea to just share one bucket and then have some beers. 3 buckets later it’s safe to say I had a good night and was feeling a bit queasy at 5.30 this morning when we had to wake up.

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It’s freezing cold here at the airport and I get the feeling our plane to Laos is going to be delayed so I’m going to go and find some food and juice.

Until Laos, B xxx

Oh I Am Grateful

I have been overseas before this trip. I have travelled to parts of Asia & Europe and have always gone home after each trip grateful for that first shower with clean water and that first night’s sleep in my bed.

India is different though. I have never before felt this grateful for my life back home after just a few weeks in another country. 

I’m grateful for clean water.
I’ve always known we’ve been lucky to have such great water in Melbourne. In my previous trips to Asia I’ve always drank bottled water and noticed the tap water was never as clean as back home but never have I been in a shower and thought that a weird smell was not coming in through the window but was actually the water. 

I’m grateful for Mark.
Most of the things I’ve been able to experience in my adult life is a credit to him. I’m lucky that he wakes up every morning and asks how I slept. He offers to carry one of my backpacks when we’ve been walking for a while – even though he’s already got 2 of his own. 

I’m grateful for my parents.
Speaking to our Honcho Ashu I learnt a lot about just how different life in India can be compared to life in Australia I’m grateful that my parents let me live a free life and that I’ve been able to chose my own path. 

I’m grateful for my brothers and their girlfriends. 
Recently I’ve noticed just how much unspoken respect we have for each other and how lucky we are to have this. I think this is a credit to our parents. 

I’m grateful for my job.
Not that I am still employed anywhere, but I am grateful for the job I had and the job I will hopefully have when I get back. There were so many people living on the streets here because there is no work for them. 

I’m grateful for Australia.
We’ve been asked a fair bit about how things work in Australia and when we have told people I’ve realised how great Australia is and I’ve found we almost start apologising for the opportunities we have simply from being an Australian.

B, xxx

Incredible India

1 County down. 

India has been full on. I’ve never experienced anything like it before and a part of me is happy I’ve left but another part feels like there is more to India than what we saw. The north and south parts of the country are so different to each and I definitely preferred the south to the north. The South of India was so much more laid back than the north.

India is enormous and I think you could spend weeks in India sightseeing and learning about the varied history of the country. Just as you could spend time learning about the history you could spend so much time learning about all of the different cultures within India.

The sites and some of the landscapes are truly breathtaking but while there I was often disappointed at how much rubbish and dirt there was everywhere. At the same time I was also mesmerised by the pure joy simple things such as kite flying can bring to an whole family and entire town.

I think overall India is packed full of diversity in every part of life. From the diverse history, cultures, traditions and attitudes to the jam-packed cities and wide open countryside it really is an Incredible place to experience.

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Such tourists with our cameras and cross body bags.

Golden Triangle

When we arrived in Delhi from Bangalore on Monday we walked to our hotel and one thing I’m starting to realise is that the nicer hotels have better pillows. At the Holiday Inn at Delhi International Airport they have a pillow menu. They give you the option of soft or firm pillows, I picked firm and would have happily fought Mark for it but luckily they provided 2 of each. Pillows alone can change my entire mood. I had the best night’s sleep in Delhi and woke up nice and rejuvenated.

Before we came to India I always thought the Taj Mahal was in Delhi, but it’s not. It’s about 4 hours away in Agra, so we hired a driver who arrived Tuesday morning and we left in the morning and arrived in Agra at 12.00pm.

Before going to see the Taj Mahal we went to see Agra Fort which was quite amazing, but the Taj Mahal is just something else. It was quite surreal standing there and looking at it. While standing there I thought “I’ve made it to the Taj Mahal”. I tried to stand there for as long as possible to take it all in but it was so hard with the amount of people there constantly knocking into me and pushing past. I don’t think I will ever go back but I’m glad I made it there in the first place. 

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Tourist Shot

Yesterday we drove to Jaipur from Agra so that we could visit a few other sites and be even bigger tourists. Jantar Mantar was one of the sites we went to and it was quite amazing. It’s the Unesco historical Astronomical Observatory in Jaipur. It has a range of different instruments used to measure the heavens. 

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Jaipur Sundial

Later last night on our way to dinner we met a lovely boy, Dhruva who helped us explain to the tuk-tuk driver where we needed to go. As we were hopping into the tuk-tuk he invited us back to his house for chai. After dinner we stopped back at his house and met his family and had chai thanks to our Indian sim card (It has made this trip so much easier).

His grandmother runs a school on the bottom level of the house free of charge to anyone who cannot afford to go to any of the other schools in town. His grandmother and grandfather had 3 sons who all live at the house with their wives and children. 20 people in total live there. They were so lovely and definitely improved our view on what India had been. After chai one of the granddaughters drew henna on my hands while Mark went up to the rooftop. We were meant to only stay for an hour but were there for 2.5 hours. They invited us back in the morning.

We went around there at 8am this morning so that they could show us how to fly kites – after all it was the first day of the Annual Kite Flying Tournament. It was quite amazing to watch and learn and see how something so simple can still carry on with all of the younger generations. After over staying again we raced back to our hotel to meet our driver. He took us to Amer Fort and then we stopped by the Kite Flying Tournament where the day was just beginning with performances by local artists. 

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Mark attempting to fly a kite

We are now in the car on our way back to Delhi. A part of me is looking forward to getting to Bangkok but after meeting Dhruva a part of me wants to stay in India a while longer. I think this may happen a fair bit on our trip…

Much love, B xxx

Majestic

It’s amazing how much of a difference an airport makes to first impressions. Bangalore’s airport is so clean and new I had a great first impression. When we walked out to the city bus line and got on the bus it was so clean and new as well. 20 points for Griffandor, I mean Bangalore. (Sorry, I watched Harry Potter for the millionth time last night) as we got closer to the city it started to look a lot like the rest of India has so far.

Our hotel is super simple and is in a part of town called Majestic, (I would say it is anything but majestic) however, our hotel has probably the best water pressure and heat we’ve come across so far in our stay in India. One thing I’ve noticed as well is that from afar everything looks clean and neat, as you get closer though you realise that it’s not as clean as you thought and you begin to question what level on sanitisation you will need to provide yourself. That’s not just here, it’s been everywhere.

I like it here though. Yesterday we went to Toit, a micro brewery which was good. I would recommend it if you ever happen to find yourself in Bangalore, however do expect crowds and a wait. We were so tired though after getting up early and flying here that we didn’t do much last night – I watched Harry Potter and Mark slowly began to watch it as well!

Today was good. We slept in, had super long showers under nice hot water and then went out for the day. We went to a cake shop first which I compare to an Italian one back home. The one back home has a name but we just call it Lina’s. Whenever an order has been put through at Lina’s Mark always offers to go pick it up. He has learnt to take the money mum gives him for the cake and use the change to buy himself a coffee and cannoli. We know to never expect him back in under an hour. The cake shop today was the Indian version. We got ourselves a piece of cake each and then bought a few small deserts to try. They had very interesting tastes and were really sweet. Not that I’m a chef or anything but it seems like they use a lot of almond meal, sugar and butter. I’m probably wrong though.

To work off the cakes we ate we thought we would walk to Bangalore Palace. We didn’t. We got a tuk-tuk instead. The Palace looked really amazing from the front. I would live there if I could, not that I know what it was like on the inside. We walked in and then realised we couldn’t go any further unless we bought a ticket and we couldn’t be bothered spending 460Rupee (AUD$11.50) each to stay inside on such a nice day so we smiled and left. I imagine it would be nice inside if you’ve got the time.

 

 

From here we walked to a pub which, when we walked inside we were told was closed even though there were tables of people in there. This is like one of those times when you feel like you’re not cool enough to be somewhere. Anyway, a couple of levels up there is another pub. Beers were cheap, food was good and cheap. We stayed for hours. We were so happy we found this one and it seemed much better than the other one downstairs and even better than the one we went to yesterday. While there we got speaking to the manager who was super helpful  and told us a few tips and tricks, one of them being India’s version of Uber, Olacabs. They have Uber in India but he said that Olacabs was more prominent in Bangalore so we signed up then and there and gave it a try. We paid the same as what we would have probably been charged in a tuk-tuk and were in a car with proper windows and doors which meant we didn’t have to cover our noses and mouths from the dust and fumes which we do in a tuk-tuk.

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Our normal get-up for a tuk-tuk ride

On our way back to our hotel we stopped at the market so I could buy myself some kameez to wear to fit in with the locals. I don’t know what they will look like on but I’ll be sure to laugh at myself if I look hilarious.

We are off to Delhi tomorrow and only have a few more days left in India. It’s taken me, and Mark, a lot longer to adjust here than it normally does when we travel. Normally we can adjust to another country within a couple of days whereas here it took so much longer, and now that we have adjusted we will be leaving. We have a lot of sightseeing to do in the next couple of days and I’m glad we are seeing them at the end of our stay. I feel like we will appreciate them more…

Until next time, B xxx

 

I’m more enlightened than you

We arrived in Kochi, surprisingly only half an hour behind schedule, considering we were delayed by over 2 and a half hours. I didn’t sleep the best on the train which has so far been normal and ok. It doesn’t really bother me. What did grind my gears a bit this time was that before we had arrived I had a train worker grab at my foot and shake me. He wanted me to give back the sheets, pillow and blanket you get given on the train, so as I was slowly unwrapping myself from my cocoon sheet I realised he had already started to pull the train sheet out from underneath me. He meant business.

Before we left for our trip we did a quick last minute shop at Kathmandu. A spare of the moment purchase of 2 cotton sleeping bag liners have been the best thing we’ve had with us this trip. Not just because it means we can be covered in our own sheet and not the ones the trains give us (we make up the bed with them as a protection so that our sleeping bag liners don’t get dirty – you can laugh at us – I do) but it also means that when we go to a hotel and realise that there are no sheets or blankets for us we can use our own.

This happened to us last night as we were getting ready for bed. After we had packed our bags ready for an early car trip to the airport we realised there wasn’t anything to cover us while we slept. I didn’t think this would be a problem as it’s super hot in Fort Kochi anyway but while we were trying to get to sleep Mark got up to get his own sheet to protect himself from the mosquitos. I then got worried that Mark would be protected and then I would be left vulnerable to the mosquitos. So of course, I got up and got mine. I fell asleep soon after thanks to our sleeping bag liners.

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Excuse the terrible photo, this was taken at 4am when we got up and realised how funny we looked.

Kochi was pretty laid back, we visited an old synagogue and old church while there and otherwise just walked around and chilled out. You can get good seafood in Kochi, so we tried to eat as much seafood as possible.

Mark noted, and commented a few times that the people in Kochi all looked like and acted like they were trying to out do each other. Below is his first input to the blog…

Everyone there is always trying to be more hardcore hippie than the previous. Every conversation we overheard or we were involved in was “I felt this” and “I feel that” “I believe this” “I believe in that”. And there we were watching stupid things on YouTube. Most of these people were mid to late 20 year old females who had broken up with their boyfriends and were now trying to ‘find themselves’ in the Spiritual land of India. Happy hunting lads.

We are at the airport now waiting for our flight to Bangalore- you can get 3o minutes free wifi if you’ve got an Indian mobile number. Luckily we bought a sim card back in Goa. One thing that surprised me about India was how terrible the internet is here. Finding half decent wifi makes us so happy now.